When I was a child,I spoke like a child,I thought like a child,I reasoned like a child.When I became a man,I gave up childish ways. 12)For now we see in a mirror dimly,but then face to face.Now I know in part;then I shall know fully,even as I have been fully known. 13)So now faith,hope,and love abide,these three;but the greatest of these is love.

我作孩子的时候，话语象孩子，心思象孩子，意念象孩子；既成了人，就把孩子的事丢弃了。13:12 我们如今仿佛对着镜子观看，模糊不清(“模糊不清”原文作“如同猜谜”)，到那时，就要面对面了。我如今所知道的有限，到那时就全知道，如同主知道我一样。13:13 如今常存的有信，有望，有爱，这三样，其中最大的是爱。

Boys ask questions while men give answers!

男孩问问题，男人给答案！

Boys play house while men build homes!

男孩在玩过家家，男人建立家室。

Boys shack up, while men get married!

男孩玩同居，男人负责任地结婚。

Boys too often abuse and misuse girls and women. While men protect,appreciate,honor and look out females(real men don’t hit women.They protect them!)

男孩经常虐待及苛刻地对待女性，而男人则保护、欣赏、尊荣及细心照料女性（真男人不会伤害女人，反而会保护她们）。

Boys too often consider a woman an object to be used，While men see a woman as a gift and a prize to be honorably pursued and won!

男孩经常把女性作为可利用的对象；而男人则把女人当做一份礼物和赏赐，光明正大的去赢取。

Boys make babies,while men have and raise children!

男孩制造婴儿，而男人则养育小孩。

A boy won’t raise his own children,a man will

guide,teach,discipline and train his own children and someone else’s when the need arises.

一个男孩不会养育他的孩子，男人会引导、教导、督导和训练他的小孩或其他需要养育的小孩.

Boys make excuses for failure,while men produce ways and strategies to succeed!

男孩为失败找借口，男人制造机会和策略以达到成功。

Boys look for someone to take care of them,men look for someone to take care of!

男孩找人照顾他自己，男人则想办法照顾他人。

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Boys drop out of school saying that school is too hard and a waste of their time；while men recognize the importance of and the value of education.They desire to be educated and/or to gain a skill in order to reach their full potential in life.

男孩以读书太难浪费他们时间为借口退学；而男人则知道读书的重要性，他们渴望受教育然以获得技能，以至于可以在生活中发挥他们的潜能。