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每日箴言(中英)|用爱心说诚实话




每日箴言

用爱心说诚实话



“又要叫基督的平安在你们心里做主,......且要存感谢的心。当用各样的智慧,把基督的道理丰丰富富地存在心里,......彼此教导,互相劝戒。” - 西 3:15-16

? 灵修


在古旧的迪斯尼经典故事小鹿班比当中,班比的朋友桑普说过的一句至理名言,很值得我们细心咀嚼。他这样告诫班比:“你若不能说中听的话,倒不如闭口不言了。” 对爱说闲话的人来说,桑普的忠告是合宜的,但在健全的人际关系上,却不一定用得上。有时,我们是需要说 “不是中听” 的话的。


若要作个耶稣基督的忠心门徒,我们有责任用爱心说诚实话。耶稣吩咐我们要“彼此相爱” ,因为我们同属一个身体,要互相真心关切。经文中的 “教导和劝戒” 也可以翻译为 “教导和指示” ,或 “教导和建议” 。它的意思是,由于真心关切别人的好处,我们需要互相提醒,以致迈向正确的道路。我们的提醒必须是出于正确的动机,不然别人不会接受它。而我们做的时候,也要怀着谦卑的态度。


若要和别人一起同心和谐地生活,我们需要彼此包容和彼此饶恕;我们彼此饶恕,因为主已经饶恕了我们。爱把这些行动连系起来,这样,基督的平安便能在我们心里做主了。每当我们说话,惟愿我们都用爱心说出来,而我们所说的也能带进平安。


? 祷告


主啊,每当我们感到有需要指导或劝戒主内弟兄姊妹时,求祢帮助我们自我省察,找寻正确的动机。我们祈求祢的智慧与谦卑、爱与平安。奉祢的名求,阿们。


普世佳音每日箴言

? Speaking The Truth In Love

"Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts... And be thankful. Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom." — Colossians 3:15-16

? Devotion

In the old Disney classic Bambi, Bambi's friend Thumper makes a wise statement that we should all take to heart at times. He admonishes Bambi, saying, "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all." Thumper's words are appropriate advice for gossipy people, but they don't always apply to healthy relationships. There are times when something "not so nice" needs to be said.

Seeking to be faithful followers of Christ Jesus, it's our responsibility to speak the truth in love. Christ's command to "love one another" addresses us as members of a body with deep concern for one another. "Teach and admonish," as our text puts it, could also be translated as "teach and instruct" or "teach and counsel." It's a matter of pointing one another in the right direction, based on a genuine concern for people's well-being. And it must be carried out with the right motives, or our advice won't be heard. It requires an attitude of humility.

Living together in unity and harmony calls for bearing with each other and forgiving one another. We forgive because the Lord has forgiven us. Love binds all these actions together, making it possible for Christ's peace to rule in our hearts. Whenever we speak, may we do so with love, and bring peace.

? Prayer

Lord, help us to look into our own hearts for the right motive when we find we must instruct or admonish a fellow believer. We ask for your wisdom and humility, your love, and your peace. Amen.


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